Things to consider when asking for a prenuptial agreement

On Behalf of | Sep 13, 2019 | Uncategorized

Even if you know that asking for a prenuptial agreement is a good idea, actually bringing this topic to light is a challenge. As you inch toward your wedding day, the last thing you want to do is give your partner the impression that you’re already thinking about divorce.

There are a variety of steps you can take to ease the tension when asking for a prenuptial agreement, including the following:

  • Don’t issue demands: If you feel strongly about a prenuptial agreement, it’s natural for you to nudge your partner in this direction. You don’t want to issue demands or come across as overbearing. You’re best off having an open and honest conversation during which the both of you express your true feelings.
  • Talk about your fears: There’s no point in keeping anything bottled up inside. For instance, if you’re scared of divorce because your parents went through the process when you were young, explain this to your partner. Talking about your fears will help clear the air.
  • Don’t let your emotions get the best of you: Asking for a prenuptial agreement is never easy, as it’s hard to say how your partner will react. Control your emotions at all times, as becoming upset or angry will drive a wedge between the two of you.
  • Listen: Rather than do all the talking, take the time to really listen to your partner. Furthermore, if they have questions, do your best to provide an honest answer.
  • Don’t cram it all into one session: You don’t have to ask for a prenuptial agreement and work through the details all in one conversation. Once you have your feelings out in the open, take a step back so you both have time to process what comes next.

Just because you create a prenuptial agreement doesn’t mean you’ll use it in the future. However, since it’s better to be safe than sorry, this is something to consider.

If you decide to divorce in the future, a prenuptial agreement can help with everything from property division to debt allocation. Not only will this save the both of you time and money, but it can also reduce tension and stress during a very difficult time.